Care,
Cambridge, the Church and I
By
Will Lyon Tupman (Girton 2014; Westcott 2019).
At
thirteen years old, I was orphaned and had not been to school. It was
almost impossible at that time to even imagine that, eleven years
later, I would be a Cambridge graduate embarking on my journey
towards ordination in the Church of England. How did this happen, and
how crucial is Cambridge in my story?
Almost
my whole life changed after the death of my parents; I started school
and moved into foster care, where I lived for six years as my life
gradually stabilised again. While I had initially thought even
considering applying to Cambridge to be completely unrealistic, my
foster carers encouraged me and sent me on an open day organised for
people in foster care by the Cambridge Admissions Office. The team
there frequently kept in touch with me throughout the application
process, supporting and advising me along the way, while my school
and foster carers helped to prepare me for my interviews and my
exams.
I
amazed myself, and made my offer to Cambridge to study the Theology
and Religious Studies Tripos. I specialised mainly in Biblical
papers, but I also studied numerous other papers including Christian
doctrine, philosophy, ethics, and even New Testament Greek! In the
spirit of St. Anselm's “faith
seeking understanding,” this
aided my understanding of the Christian faith – and my faith was
also an aid to my studies. Having a greater understanding of my
faith, through academic study, is helpful both for me and others
around me, as I use my understanding and theology to help guide
others in their Christian journey.
I
loved my three years at Girton College; through Girton, and the wider
University, I have made a great network of friends. College life
suited me perfectly – and I especially enjoyed the countless
Formals I attended! I was also very generously supported financially
by my College and its Benefactors, by means of awarding me a bursary
each year – boosted further for me, as I had been in foster care. I
am very grateful for this, and for how Cambridge is continually
working to ensure that the University is open and affordable to all.
With
over seven hundred societies and clubs at Cambridge, it was easy to
get involved with the extra-curricular life of Cambridge – both in
College and the wider University. Photography and writing are two of
my favourite hobbies, so I spent two years as a photojournalist for
The
Cambridge Student. In
addition to attending a number of Churches and working with the
Christian Union, I was a Chapel Warden and Choral Scholar at Girton.
During my time in Choir we had three fantastic tours – to Portugal,
Toronto, and Hong Kong and Macau; I feel especially lucky to have had
these experiences. Evenings with Girton's poetry society were a real
highlight – even if I was probably better at enjoying the poetry of
others than writing my own! I am also a keen runner, and enjoyed
representing both my College and the University competitively
(especially at Varsity!), and in my third year I co-captained
Girton's team to win the College League in both men's and women's
categories – the first time Girton has won both competitions in the
same year. I also helped to run the very same open days I had once
attended during my time at Girton, as a former Care Leaver.
After
three fantastic years at Girton, I graduated with my BA and then
spent two very exciting years in London. My time at Cambridge had
perfectly prepared me to study my Master's in Biblical Studies at
King's College London, a year which I also thoroughly enjoyed. After
completing my Master's, I spent a year working as a Pastoral
Assistant at St. Michael's Church in Croydon, a placement which has
given me many invaluable experiences – both in the Church, and in
the wider community. I have worked as a hospital chaplain, a refugee
volunteer, and a College Chaplain at Croydon College – a diverse
school, where I have also founded a Chess Club.
What
does the future hold for me? It was during my time at Cambridge that
I began discerning with the Church of England to see whether I have a
vocation to ordained ministry. This initially began with a
conversation with my College Chaplain, the Rev'd Dr Malcolm Guite; he
was not at all surprised that I was feeling called by God in this
way, and he encouraged me to pursue this further. I have continued
this journey of exploration since then.
Following
the Bishop's formal recommendation for me to train for ordination, I
will be returning to Cambridge to spend two years of study, training,
formation and placements at Westcott House, an Anglican theological
college and a member of the Cambridge Theological Federation. Words
can hardly describe how excited I am about this, and my whole future
– something which Cambridge has been instrumental in helping to
guarantee.
Nothing
is impossible; everything is possible. Realise your potential;
achieve your goals.
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